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Poetry Tuesday: He Lifts The Elegant Lid

Poetry Tuesday…I’ve told a few people how I’ve been throwing down lines of tetrameter since Ash Wednesday.   What if Tuesdays here became “Poetry Tuesday”?  No comment, just some lines for the perusal of whoever wants to wander by?

Sure, why not?   The following was my entry from about three weeks ago.   Enjoy…

HE LIFTS THE ELEGANT LID

He lifts the elegant lid,

This one, he likes, especially,

Particular to its grasses.

Snow enchants him, and skiers too.

Gatherings of friends around fires,

Ant farms and farmers, and tall corn.

He wants a game to be played well,

Just for the hell of it, and more.

Laughter eases the suffering–

In fact, nothing else will do it.

Certain toddlers catch his eye,

Over and over he wants them,

To be with them, praying they’ll visit,

Spend time, perhaps even speak to him.

He’d love to tell them how much love

He has for thunder, rain, and storm,

How they thrill him in the morning.

He likes ice water, supple shadow,

And cotton curtains easing out,

Encouraged by afternoon breeze

To let in light, and simply breathe.

He likes lips, too, the feel of prayer

Moving across them, scent on skin.

Thoughts are not his favorite

But to see motion, muscling play,

Is to induce near giddiness,

Seraphs jumping, crying, “Holy!”

© 2012 Jeff Berryman

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Acting 101: For All of Us

Here’s what actors do, in one way or another.  Imaginatively, they work to enter the experience of a person, a character, imagining circumstances, beliefs, thought-life, sensory preferences, histories of relationships, and perhaps most importantly, what their particular characters are hungry for, long for, and have been living without.   They then shift their physical and emotional lives to somehow begin to interact with other players to present a story of what it means to be human in a very particular place with very particular cultural, historical, and personal factors in play.  (Note: Imaginative, sensory detail is important.  Where does the character’s particular hunger land in their body?)

One of the cardinal rules of acting is that you cannot judge your character and hope to enter into their hearts and minds.   Be it a murderer, a savior, a lover, or a hated foe, to judge the other as an actor is to kill the process of entering in.    People judge from the outside.   When you’re inside the head of the character, none of that judgment can be going on, because it’s not going in their heads.   Get it?   Whenever you watch an actor that somehow isn’t quite succeeding in disappearing into the character, one of the culprits to watch for is a position of judgment in the approach.

This is a process of play and of work.  It is imaginative, muscular work that takes time, energy, thought, research, conversation, experimentation, and failure.  We watch, we offer the work to others, we try to learn what we can about what it means to be human through these interactions.   Our work is to humanize the 2-D characters that lie on the writer’s page, enflesh them, give them voice, and hopefully, serve that character without judgment.

Will I play characters that are not like me?   Characters who hold opinions in politics and religion and sexuality and economics that differ from mine?   I hope so, or there won’t be much to do.

All of this is simply to suggest an exercise for all of us.   Especially if you’re not an actor, give this a shot.   Pick a person, a real human being (call them a character if you’d like) that sits on the opposite side of the fence from you on some piece of human living that you think is really important.   Perhaps it’s a person (in actor terms, a character) that you don’t like very much, that you’d shout down if you could, or maybe it’s someone you fear.  Pretend you got cast as that person, and now it’s your job to get inside their head, without judgment, to grasp what their hearts are like.   Where they came from, what they’re up to, what they see as important and necessary.    Where do their disappointments lie?   What are their heartbreaks?   What is the shape of their human brokenness?  What makes them laugh?   And what do they long for?   What do they want?

If you’re really gutsy, you’ll realize the only way to actually find any of this out is to move beyond your imagination and actually go ask them.   Befriend them, get to know them, differences and all.   Of course, the actor’s work is not try to change their characters.  The characters are what they are.   We will only understand them or not, enter in fully or not, offer our bodies as places for their stories to live or not, and finally, love them or not.

That’s all.

Let’s say you get all this good information about the character.   What’s the next step?   What’s the next piece of the work?  (You’re going to like this.)   Now your job is to figure out where all the deep, soulful things you found out about the other lie in you.   Because the work of the actor is not to find how the character differs from them, but to find where the places of intersection are.  How are we alike?   The assumption is this; all the soulful things that make one person unique are somehow also located in me, and all possibilities lie within us all.

Maybe call this the deep drilling into the old phrase, “There, but for the grace of God, go I.”

We are all the other.

Humanizing, isn’t it?

To restate the exercise: Be an actor.  Lay down your opinions for a minute and try to imaginatively enter the experience of those you oppose.  Your convictions may not change (changing anyone’s convictions is not the point), but I’m guessing the tone of voice, rhetoric, and conversation might.

And then, who knows what the possibilities might be.

All the world’s a stage…

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There’s A Lot To Deal With

Infographics and wordmapping have caught my eye lately.   So when I found Inkscape, I decided to start fiddling around with it.   Here’s a first attempt at beginning to think visually about things running around in my head.

The biggest objection will probably be the “I” being in the middle, but I put it there simply because it’s our perceptual center, and we can’t escape that position.  We can imagine and rethink and reposition ourselves in our mind’s eye so that we know that we are not the center of things…and we do that from the place of our own centeredness, looking out.   All the information, images, and ideas that come through our processes of thinking have to pass through that center we call the self, so I leave that I-ness in the center of things.

There are a world of things to think about when it comes to the way we are ordered in mind, body, spirit, and soul–and who knows if there is an ontologically correct way of referring to them or ordering them.   But how we map it out is part of the (largely unseen and unnoticed) daily task.

So if you happen by and have a look at this thing, I’m wondering what you think I left out or misplaced.   It’s an interesting tool to talk about the way we see our lives.

Obviously, it’s a Christian viewpoint, though I’ll bet many of my Christian friends will have a thing to say about how all things Christian enter the picture.

Another note:  at this point, I’m not trying to really make things clear, nor am I trying to simplify.  At least not yet.

I will keep tweaking this, I’m sure, but at least you can’t say you didn’t have anything to think about today.

How do you map things…?    

 

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Listening and the Hunger for Great Conversation

I love conversation.  The exchange of experiences and ideas borders on the miraculous when you consider how specific our lives are to ourselves.  How to explain this thing going on inside my head?   This dance of images and ideas, memories and dreams, each of them presenting themselves for my further consideration constantly, falling into my mind like so many snowflakes.   But then I want to offer them to you as well, and say, “Look at that” or “listen to this” or “Help me understand why that thought just flittered in.”

Dallas Willard thinks our life is our thought-life.  I’m not willing to go that far, but he’s pretty close.  And to unpack these lives of ours seems to be one of the things we are built to help each other with.   It’s so strange that we have to pay people to be friend enough to sit and listen and ask the provocative kinds of questions that help us re-imagine our lives.   They’re called therapists, and they’re so helpful, but why can’t we just get more skilled at listening and asking wall-breaking questions?

I think one of the keys to opening the locked doors inside each other is to follow the advice of Jesus that St. Matthew records.   It’s simple really…”Do not judge.”   There’s the whole conversation about discerning and knowing right from wrong, blah, blah, blah, but it’s very profound to simple be present with the person you’re listening to, and create a space whereby they can speak their lives.   How strange that we want to control and comment and instruct and fix and otherwise really miss the person trying to offer us something.   Listening is a rare thing.   Listening because someone’s actually interested is even rarer.   Listening without judgment is a great, great gift.     It not only spurs conversation, but it fosters the kinds of connections people long for, that a Facebook post just can’t deliver.

Stay tuned.  I’m looking for ways to initiate and sustain great conversations.    I’ve got some ideas that will require intentionality and effort, but who knows.  Maybe this will be the year I’ll hear the world truly speak, and for the first time, listen…

Create a space for someone to speak their life today… 

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Thriving: A Good Hub of a Word

Themes for the New Year abound.   Commitment, focus, discipline, simplicity, gratitude, service…there are many ways to frame a reorientation of living.  Here’s the one I’ve settled on as a hub for the work of my various writing platforms.

Thrive.

Funny word, thrive.  Makes me think of “hive.”  Which leads me to images of buzzing and working and community.  (But let’s not buy into the one queen and a bunch of drones idea, though some of you might like that just fine.)   And honey.   Good stuff, in general.   But that’s just word association.  What does it mean to actually thrive?

Before I riff on the meaning of the word, though, I think I’ll riff on why I’ve settled on “thrive.”  It’s simple: it has life embedded in it, it suggests both action and being, and it’s what I want for my wife, my kids, and everyone I care about.   Jesus said, “I came that they might have life, and have it more abundantly.”  Sounds like thriving to me.   And as I reflect, and reflect on my reflections (I know, I know…save the navel-gazing comments for later), it all seems to be trying to answer questions about what it means to be human, and what it means for human beings to thrive according to their nature.   Questions of being and doing, of art and mind, of beauty and goodness, of relationship and faith–all of these point toward something beyond happiness (which is not a bad thing, by the way.  Let’s not be reductionist on how highly we value happiness).   For me, “thriving” doesn’t deny the physical and emotional weather that can go dark and stormy for certain periods of time, but rather orients us to how to meet those days with energy, grit, optimism, and faith.

Of course, there’s going to be a fight over who’s to say what human “thriving” is.  I saw one comment on a blog where a commenter argued that a successful killer might feel like he’s thriving if he hasn’t been caught and is enjoying his “work.”    And I suppose evil can thrive.   Shoot…I don’t want that to be true.    But human “being” and “doing” is not thriving if evil is thriving.   Evil destroys the kind of thriving I’m talking about.

But I don’t want to amend my thought by saying “good thriving” or “thriving according our nature.”  Messes with the simplicity of things.

For the moment, here’s what I mean, and around these ideas is where you’ll find me writing, blogging, tweeting, and Facebooking.  (Really…Facebooking?):  Humans are designed to traffic in lots of dynamic process and states of being.   Certain things add to life, lift mind and heart, add strength for the moments when we have to go to war, and make life seem worth living in a big way.  Other things tear at us, destroy our confidence not only in ourselves but in humanity itself, dog us with constructions of reality that present us with doom and gloom scenarios from this moment until the day we die.    The moment-to-moment negotiation in mind/body/soul/spirit between the additive things and the destroyers is what days are made of.

My commitment is to work to make my writing and artistic work land on the “additive” side.   What words can I find that might add to the possibility of your thriving today?

Is “thrive” a word that works for you?

What do we need to thrive?   I think I riff on this one for a quite awhile.

Did you see the sky this morning?   Gorgeous…

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